Sunday, April 10, 2011

How To Save Your Relationship With Your Ex Girlfriend Back After A Bad Breakup

Breaking up with a girlfriend could be traumatic and embarrassing to your ego and very painful to your self esteem. But do you want to know how to get your ex girlfriend back because of love or control?

In most cases most realize how much their life would change without their ex in it. However before trying to win her back you should take time to evaluate things before making that decision.

5 Steps To Getting Your Ex Girlfriend Back

  1. Step away to think, calm down, and allow her and you to let your guard down.  
  2. Stop all communications (stalking, texting, unexpected visits)  
  3. Allow her to miss you.  
  4. Learn something new for yourself to improve your self esteem.  
  5. Stay well groomed.

Taking care of yourself and seeming moving on will take her off guard and allow your ex to think of you. Your ex girlfriend expects you to act like a fool until you get her back. Don't do this, this can push her further away and make her believe breaking up was the right thing to do.

 5 Tips To Keep Your Girl

  1. Make girlfriends concerns your concerns.  
  2. Listen and respond with care.  
  3. Have scheduled dates.  
  4. Don't break promises or call to cancel them.  
  5. Give compliments on appearance.(be sincere)

If your girlfriend or you have not been getting along or not respecting one another, why are you fighting to reunite? Think about if you should get back with your girlfriend or not. You are certainly worth making the right decision

Are you willing to commit to making the relationship a priority? If so you are on the right track. If you are a control freak and don't really like women and the only way to get want you want is lying, force, and manipulation you will always be left.

If this is you there are bigger problems to work out to help you enjoy your life and a great spouse and that involves loving yourself first.

If you want to win your ex girlfriend back don't go through a whole lot of dramatics. Tantrum do not get women! A strong controlled man does, not controlling and crazy!

If your screaming, harassing and blowing up her text messenger and answer service you are pushing her further away. Do you think acting out is appealing? This will not get back your woman. Maintaining a healthy relationship starts with changes you will first have to make yourself. You will attract what you become. What are you willing to do to get your ex girlfriend back?

I know relationships are tough at times and getting through the rough patch seems impossible. There is help that many before you received that fixed their relationships when it seemed hopeless.  In "The Magic Of Making Up" you can learn how to control the frustration and anxiety your feeling by using techniques on pg 13 while learning how to reconnect with your ex on pg 43.

Magic Of Making Up was very helpful to me. See why this ebook is so special and finally get learn how to save your relationship with your girlfriend.