When your relationship was new you sent love messages and told each other how you could never live without one another. You believed that life as you knew it was better as long as your had each other. What happened?
Most likely you moved in together and started to see the real person behind your affections when you began to live together. Dealing with finances and responsibilities can be harmful to a relationship if you don't know how to communicate effectively as a couple.
- Bad Habits
There are so many things that can happen to make you view your partner differently. But the truth is this can happen over and over again with anyone you meet. As you know people will be quick to tell you that the honey moon is over, but I disagree. You have just entered a more mature love level and have to learn how to play the game.
I am not going to tell you to say cute things and dress sexy or how to make your love want you more. You know that your communication has a problem and it needs to be addressed…together.
Counseling for relationships can be costly and time consuming. But reconnecting is a priority and should be taken seriously. You are not a mind reader but know that your partner has needs you obviously haven’t met and they sure haven’t learned how to express those needs in a way that doesn't leave you defensive and angry.
You still love each other and need serious help to bridge the gap that’s has been growing for a long time. Yes most problems are about something that has never been solved making any small mistake a detonator to an explosion. A relationship is like a football game. Giving up is not an option and new strategies have to be play to get the desired win.
10 Tips On Fixing A Broken Relationship
- Seek relationship advice as a couple.
- Do something nice for your partner everyday.
- Always let your partner know that you love them.
- Never take you partner for granted.
- Always apologize when your wrong.
- Always publicly support by your partner.
- Do not hide important information from each other.
- If you can't do something say it.
- If you forget to do something say it then apologize.
- When you forgive. Leave it in the past.