When your relationship was
new you sent love messages and told each other how you could never live without
one another. You believed that life as you knew it was better as long as your
had each other. What happened?
Most likely you moved in
together and started to see the real person behind your affections when you began to live together. Dealing with finances and responsibilities can be harmful to a relationship if you don't know how to communicate effectively as a couple.
- Bad Habits
- Bills
- Children
There are so many things that
can happen to make you view your partner differently. But the truth is this can
happen over and over again with anyone you meet. As you know people will be quick to tell you that the honey moon is
over, but I disagree. You have just entered a more mature love level and have
to learn how to play the game.
I am not going to tell you to
say cute things and dress sexy or how to make your love want you more. You know
that your communication has a problem and it needs to be addressed…together.
Counseling for relationships
can be costly and time consuming. But reconnecting is a priority and should be
taken seriously. You are not a mind reader but know that your partner has needs
you obviously haven’t met and they sure haven’t learned how to express those
needs in a way that doesn't leave you defensive and angry.
You still love each other and
need serious help to bridge the gap that’s has been growing for a long time.
Yes most problems are about something that has never been solved making any
small mistake a detonator to an explosion. A relationship is like a football
game. Giving up is not an option and new strategies have to be play to get the
desired win.
10 Tips On Fixing A Broken Relationship
- Seek relationship advice as a couple.
- Do something nice for your partner everyday.
- Always let your partner know that you love them.
- Never take you partner for granted.
- Always apologize when your wrong.
- Always publicly support by your partner.
- Do not hide important information from each other.
- If you can't do something say it.
- If you forget to do something say it then apologize.
- When you forgive. Leave it in the past.