Friday, June 1, 2012

How To Get A Girlfriend Back In Love With You

Getting a girlfriend back after she says she's through can be disturbing to say the least. When you are in the middle of a breakup and the embarrassing pain is exposed it leave us in a very vulnerable state that can force us to say some pretty ugly things.

If you are the reason for the break up and have been confronted you probably got on the defensive and tried to make your ex girlfriend the reason for your misdeeds. Of course you know this is wrong even if it seems to work at the time you are still breaking up. Guilt only last for a moment. Either way you are losing your girl.

If you want your ex back you will first have to clear the air about your wrong doing and genuinely want to talk things over and make it right. You also have to give your ex some space to thing and calm down without the pressure of you begging and text stalking. This will only make things worse by confirming that you are a total jerk.

5 Steps To Getting Your Ex Girlfriend Back
If you want to get an ex girlfriend back you will have to stop this now!
  1. Stop all negative contact such as stalking texting and calling.
  2. Showing up unannounced at his workplace or home.
  3. Forced conversations and space invasion.
  4. Blaming, accusing and accusations.
  5. Using guilt as a tool.

If you want your girlfriend back  keeping her will take much more than begging and looking good. If you are serious about getting your ex back, you have to first get it out of your head that this is still your girlfriend. Then you will see that she is not yours and except the fact that you have to do what is necessary for her to make the choice to take you back. A relationship is when two people want to be together by choice. Forcing a union will end in disaster.

If you are using pressure to keep your relationship together you have already lost to the future great guy that offers a choice by saying and doing the right things and allowing free will to work.

Make Yourself Interesting If You Want To Get Your Girl Back

  1.   Join a new club, gym or take a class in something you always wanted to do. This will give you something interesting to talk about and make your ex see that you are really ready to change for the better.
  2.    Leave a message to your ex saying that they were right and you want to thank them. This will cause them to be curious and drop their defense. You will receive a call or visit soon, if not call for coffee in a few days.
  3.     When your ex calls or come to you remain calm and friendly. Keep this meeting very brief and ask for a few minutes (10 minutes the longest) to talk. Do not talk longer even if you want to, this will prevent you from going back into the argument that is still fresh in your minds.
  4.     Never ask if your ex is dating. It doesn't matter, you want to let your ex chose you and not put him on the defensive. We all know that rebound relationships are only to make us jealous anyway or as a distraction. Don’t let jealousy blow your chances of getting your ex back.
  5. Use a relationship guidebook to help get your ex back. Here are some "Get Your Ex Back Courses I recommend highly.

You are now on your way to making some better decisions while trying to get back your girlfriend. I hope you seriously relax and take time to do something for yourself. Thinking about a breakup all of the time can make us do crazy things you can’t take back. You want to avoid any negative behavior that will cause you to lose your ex forever. Don't listen to your friends if they never won back a girlfriend even if they mean well. The reason is you will resent them for their opinion later if it doesn't work.

WARNING: If you’re having a real terrible time dealing with this break up and need to stalk, you need serious help and are not ready to be in a healthy relationship. 

If you want to get real help and don’t know what to say to your ex when your meet get some relationship advice that will put you in the good graces and get your ex girlfriend back. Good Luck!